But Who Am I To Guide You Or Teach You About Boundaries?

Well...

My journey is one of resilience, compassion, and a deep commitment to healing. For 25 years, I served as an emergency room nurse in the heart of New York City, witnessing the devastating toll of stress, trauma, and addiction on countless lives.

In the hospital, I learned the importance of boundaries the hard way—after all, there's a saying that "nurses eat their young," and I definitely witnessed that over the years.

Growing up in Flatbush, Brooklyn, during the turbulent 70s and 80s, I experienced firsthand the impact of the crack epidemic, HIV, and the complex web of trauma that permeated my community. These early experiences ignited a profound sense of empathy within me and a burning desire to help others heal in a more holistic way.

Boundaries became a crucial lesson in my life as I navigated being a young single father and in my first divorce. I realized that I didn't have boundaries and people didn't honor any when I tried to set them. What I am teaching you now doesn't just help my clients; it changed MY life and is the bedrock of my marriage, my business, and my life as a parent, grandparent, and business owner.

While working in the ER, I recognized the limitations of traditional medicine in addressing the root causes of suffering. I witnessed the physical manifestations of deep emotional and psychological wounds, many I saw as examples of body's who's boundaries were not honored.

In 2013, my own body reached its breaking point, leaving me unable to walk or work. This personal crisis became a catalyst for profound transformation. I embarked on a journey of self-discovery, exploring alternative healing modalities, including the transformative power of psychedelics.

Through divine timing and my travels to Peru, my wife Kole and I were married high above Machu Picchu in 2015, a fitting symbol of our personal growth and the power of our commitment. As two eagles circled overhead, our wedding was not only performed by Mallku (meaning "condor" in Quechua) but also blessed by a condor feather—a fitting omen for the creation of our transformative work, The Condor Approach.

Together and separately, Kole and I worked with personal training clients, both one-on-one and in large groups, in person and virtually. Our online fitness classes attracted over 500 participants from 2013 to 2017, during which time we began addressing the physical and emotional aspects of our community members' well-being.

As we continued to grow in our practice, we started coaching biohackers, healthcare practitioners, and doctors privately, focusing on relationships, emotional navigation, and the underlying drivers of high performance. From the biggest stages, to 8 figure businesses, boundaries is something most of out clients struggled with in some area of their life.

Either their outward boundaries, or their inbound boundaries weren't getting the results they wanted.

Through our experiences, we recognized that our methods worked with all people because they revolved around the body's innate intelligence.

My journey is a testament to the power of boundaries and the importance of integrating all aspects of our being for holistic healing.

So, only you can decide if this is something you are willing to carve out time, money and commit to.

So, you in?